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The 4 Dangers of Not Being Happy!

Posted on April 1st, 2009 R. Lynn Lane 17 comments

One -You will never get out of life what you want. Study and research show time after time that happiness comes with your drive to make things happen. This comes in the form of setting and pursuing goals and your purpose in life.

You have in your brain a mechanism that is like a heat seeking missile that looks for the goals you set for yourself. Also you have a deep need for growth and achievement. Without that you and I would have died out as humans many many years ago. Find your purpose and set those goals today.

“The tragedy in life doesn’t lie in not reaching your goal. The tragedy lies in having no goal to reach.”- Benjamin Mays

Two – Your relationships will suffer. If you’re not happy the people around you are not very happy. If you’re not happy other people don’t want to be around you much. If you’re not happy you pass that on to your children and they are not happy.

“They may forget what you said, but they will never forget how you make them feel.”
- Carol Buchner

Three – Your health will suffer. Happy people are more active and care about their health more. They know that by working on their health they feel better, look better and perhaps live longer.

Four – You will never lead. Without good health,relationships, goals and a purpose you will never be a leader of people or yourself. If you’re not happy you will never contribute much to the people around you and you will find it hard to earn their respect.

People are more concerned with the leader before they become concerned with the leader’s leadership skills, this is evident by our politicians throughout the American history.

Find the things that make you happy.

Thank You,

Lynn Lane

Dare To Be Great!

www.Warriorofsuccess.com
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17 responses to “The 4 Dangers of Not Being Happy!”
- Rob Northrup April 1st, 2009 at 18:55
  
  Lynn,
  
  This is very true… Happiness is hard to define I think. We all need to have some level of yearning to conquer new challenges yet we cannot be dissatisfied with the fact that we haven’t achieved them yet.
  
  That is why it is so important to only set goals that we intend to carry out. And why we need to abandon failures and learn from them, but leave them behind mentally.
  
  Making the decision to abandon something that isn’t working or that you aren’t committed to any longer can cause great happiness…
  
  Seize the Day,
  Rob
  
  Is Your Corporation Protecting Your Personal Assets?
- Philip Graves April 1st, 2009 at 22:03
  
  I’ve always believed that if you’re not happy yourself you can’t be happy in a relationship. People tend to think that intangible thing “the relationship” isn’t right, when really their own happiness is the problem.
  
  I look forward to consuming more of your posts.
  
  Philip Graves [Consumer Behaviour Expert]
- JJ Jalopy April 1st, 2009 at 22:08
  
  Love it!
  
  You don’t need another excuse to be happy – it’s good for you!!
  
  I’m really enjoying your enthusiasm and attitude Lynn.
  
  Can’t wait to read more! You’re a success superstar!
  
  JJ Jalopy
  Life Coaching and Home Business Advice with JJ Jalopy
- Steve Chambers April 1st, 2009 at 23:35
  
  Great advice and more and more reasons to have a strong sense of goals to live for and to stay happy.
  
  Steve
- Bob Kaufer April 2nd, 2009 at 02:11
  
  Thanks for the post
  
  Bob Kaufer
  If you MOVE like the Tin Man, you will THINK like the Scarecrow and FEEL like the Lion
- Christian Haller April 2nd, 2009 at 02:15
  
  Happiness is a choice. Why do so many people choose to be disatisfied?
- DIY Lawyer April 2nd, 2009 at 02:23
  
  Thanks for the post
  
  The DIY Lawyer
  
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- Bob Kaufer April 2nd, 2009 at 02:25
  
  Welcome to the Class
  
  I am looking forward to reading your information.
  
  Bob Kaufer
  If you MOVE like the Tin Man, you will THINK like the Scarecrow and FEEL like the Lion
- Darryl Pace April 2nd, 2009 at 02:54
  
  Lynn,
  
  Thank you for the inspirational post.
  
  Darryl Pace
- Pam Schulz April 2nd, 2009 at 03:40
  
  Lynn,
  
  You raise some very interesting points about choosing to be happy and how that impacts those around us. My husband often reminds me that really the only thing in life WE can control is our attitude toward our circumstances and those around us. Your wise advice will definitely keep me going over the next 60+ days!
  
  Pam Schulz
  http://www.greatwealth.com
- Lisa McLellan April 2nd, 2009 at 03:54
  
  Great topic. I am one of the happiest people I know. After a rather unhappy childhood, I refuse to be unhappy anymore for any length of time. I use kind of a “stop think” process (a bit culty but it works for me) to keep the bad thoughts away. I feel happy almost all the time. What is that song that has that wonderful line in it that says something like “it’s not having what you want, it’s wanting what you’ve got…” Love it!
  
  Lisa McLellan, Child Care Expert – Babysitters, Nannies, and Au-pairs
- April Braswell April 2nd, 2009 at 04:05
  
  Making others happy while making ourselves happy, indeed, GREAT relationship advise. Very sound.
  
  All the best,
  
  April Braswell
  Dating Expert and Online Dating Coach
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- Pat Becker April 2nd, 2009 at 04:08
  
  I like happy. Conserve energy. Smiling takes less muscles than frowning.
  
  Be happy
  -Pat
  Business Owners Fast Track to Internet Profits
- Duane Cunningham April 2nd, 2009 at 04:36
  
  Awesome!
  
  For me Happiness is a choice we make each and everyday! Life is way to short and precious not to spend it making the right choice in your mind daily!
  
  Duane
  
  Tap Into the Psychology of the Mind with Persuasion Expert Duane Cunningham
- JC MacKenzie April 2nd, 2009 at 05:05
  
  The joy is in the journey. I’m really looking forward to this one.
  
  JC
- Mitchell Rehaume April 2nd, 2009 at 05:25
  
  Hi Rodney,
  
  I like what your post hast to say. Keep up the good work.
- John Ho April 2nd, 2009 at 16:04
  
  Hi Lynn,
  
  “They may forget what you said, but they will never forget how you make them feel.” – Carol Buchner
  
  How true the saying!
  
  Feeling stays at the subtle body, the unconscious mind; the facts, the incidents stay at the conscious mind. Feelings stay around much longer after our memory fades.
  
  John Ho
  Understanding Personalities for Better Influence & Persuasion
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