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Know What You Value

July 24, 2014 - Author: R. Lynn Lane

Morning Mojo ~ You do not wake up one morning a bad person. It happens by a thousand tiny surrenders of self-respect to self-interest. ~Robert Brault ~ Who and what you value in life will be shown by your action. When all is said and done, makes no difference the things you say, plan or intend, it is purely the actions you take that count. Be about making those decisions that drive you forward to your true passion, mission and purpose on this journey of life.
Life hands us some heavy baggage along the way. When we know what we value and our purpose that is when some baggage can be dropped right where we stand and move forward unencumbered.

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Life Is For Living!

July 18, 2014 - Author: R. Lynn Lane

For many years I worked in palliative care. My patients were those who had gone home to die. Some incredibly special times were shared. I was with them for the last three to twelve weeks of their lives. People grow a lot when they are faced with their own mortality.

When questioned about any regrets they had or anything they would do differently, common themes surfaced again and again. Here are the most common five:

1. I wish I’d had the courage to live a life true to myself, not the life others expected of me.

2. I wish I didn’t work so hard.

3. I wish I’d had the courage to express my feelings.

4. I wish I had stayed in touch with my friends.

5. I wish that I had let myself be happier.

Source :http://www.ariseindiaforum.org/nurse-reveals-the-top-5-regrets-people-make-on-their-deathbed

Life is for living. The time we spend can never be returned. Invest each moment doing and being that person you wish to be. Enjoy the people that you value in your life.

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Communication Improves Personal & Professional Relationships

July 15, 2014 - Author: R. Lynn Lane

Effective communications are a very important skill that is important for people of all ages to master which can help to improve both your personal and professional relationships. Communication skills are something which are south after in the workplace and can improve your chances of landing that sought after position as well as improve the quality of your personal relationships. Learning to communicate in an effective and efficient manner can have a long lasting positive impact on all areas of your life.

One of the first things which is required to build strong communication skills is the art of listening and establishing a rapport with the other person. Many people commonly make the mistake of assuming that communicating correctly is simply voicing their own opinions, needs, wants and desires; this could not be further from the truth. In fact in order to effectively communicate you need to focus not only on the words you speak but really listening to what others have to say as well.

In order to truly understand what the other person is trying to communicate you must be quiet and actively listen to what the other person is saying. This will help you to truly understand the feelings and needs of others and learn the best way to approach the conversation in a way that is going to be productive for both of you. In order to learn to empathize or sympathize with another you must be able to really listen and understand the message which the other person is trying to convey. Once you learn to master this skill, all of your relationships will drastically improve as a result.

In the working environment learning to effectively communicate is a skill which is essential especially if you are in a managerial or team leader role in which you must communicate with others throughout the day. Not only will you be able to listen, understand and empathize with others you will also learn to better manage your own personal stress as well by learning how to effectively communicate your own needs in a way which allows you to be heard and understood. This will help you to become more assertive in both your professional and personal life and can help you learn how to achieve the effect which you desire.

Effective communication is not only about the words in which you or others speak. You also need to learn how body language plays a huge role in communication and can often tell a lot about the way in which someone is feeling. This may be the hardest part of communication to improve and master because our facial expressions and body movements such as hand movements and gestures can often contradict the words that we speak if not careful. You need to not only be mindful in what you say but also in the way in which your body language may be speaking for you. You want to make sure that your words and body language are not contradicting each other when communicating with others.

You will see a boost in positivity in your relationships in your personal relationships once you learn to effectively communicate your needs as well as listen and understand the needs of others. However, one area where you may really see a difference is in your professional life. Communication plays a huge role in almost every aspect of business relationships. Whether you are in a managerial position or simply one of a team of 20 you need to be able to effectively express yourself in order to help you to achieve the best results in a professional environment.

The workplace is often a stressful and demanding environment and because of this communication is crucial to your professional life. In your professional life you must build working relationships with clients, managers, coworkers, suppliers and a variety of other people who you interact with on a regular basis. Improving your communication skills can help you to develop positive working relationships with these individuals as well as gain the trust of others which is crucial. You want other people to trust you and know that you have tier best interest at heart. You can be sure that you express this through effective lines of communication which shows that you are listening and responding to their needs.

Do not underestimate the importance of learning how to communicate with others in a positive and effective way. You will be surprised by how much learning these simple skills can help to improve your relationships both personal and professional. Every day you are faced with situations where you must communicate your needs with others and it is vital that you are able to do this in a way that allows you to be understood and viewed as a caring and empathetic individual. Learn to listen to others, control your body language and expressions and voice your own needs clearly and you will be well on your way to improving all aspects of your life.

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Morning Mojo ~ Life’s Whippings

February 4, 2014 - Author: R. Lynn Lane

Morning Mojo ~ My Mom would whip my butt when I was a kid and sometimes I didn’t understand. As I got older I could see the reasons and the lessons behind those whippings. I would get my butt beat in the ring back when I was fighting at tournaments and would learn from each one. The funny thing is….life will also give you a whipping. You may not understand during those moments but as you work through it you get the reasons and lessons that lead to bigger and better beginnings. It’s all a journey that is too short to over think, worry and fear. To stay excited, enthused, inspired and motivated to live the life we deserve is a true adventure full of pitfalls, cliffs and mountains to climb. When you start to express your Greatness you will face the challenges that life finds you worthy of and then the universe seems to help you as you grow. When life whips your butt take a look at the lessons and reason behind it. Share the lessons with the people that matter then readjust, change your approach and continue your journey with the knowing that the Universe is ready to help you out.

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Morning Mojo ~ Look Within

February 3, 2014 - Author: R. Lynn Lane
Morning Mojo ~ “Though I might travel afar, I will meet only what I carry with me, for every man/woman is a mirror. We see only ourselves reflected in those around us. Their attitudes and actions are only a reflection of our own. The whole world and its condition has its counter parts within us all. Turn the gaze inward. Correct yourself and your world will change.” ~ Kirsten Zambucka ~ The Law of… Correspondence says ~ “As within, so without.” The very thoughts, ideas and beliefs we have create our world. The study of Quantum Physics concludes that we can influence and create change to an atom and its sub-atomic particles just by the thoughts, ideas and expectations we create in our mind. That is why self-awareness is so important in the day to day journey through life. Being aware of a limited belief from a past event or changing our perceptions and expectations can change our world!

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